Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
If you are a spanker, do u like your spankee to pull his pants off himself or u do it for him..?
If you are a spanker, do u like your spankee to pull his pants off himself or u do it for him..?
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Wed, June 27, 2007 - 12:14 PMMy partner usually undresses themselves. I'll undress them on particular occasions when I think that's relevant to the scene.
A few weeks ago I pulled my partner's pants down, (but left them on their legs), because a) they were elastic top and b) I was aiming to create the experience of exposure and ego challenge.
But for typical SM scenes, or for scenes dealing primarily with physical sensation, I just let my partner undress themselves.
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Wed, June 27, 2007 - 6:41 PMI am a switch and lifelong spanko. I think that both can be hot. To start a spanking over clothing and gradually ungarb the spankee can be great for anticipation as well as increase of intensity as the bottom is warmed up. On the other hand icommanding the bottom to drop drawers or lift skirt and seeing that hesitant look in their eyes, knowing they are gonna get it, is equally tasty, perhaps having them spend a few moments in the corner withtheir unspanked bottom on display, knowing that it will soon be a glowing red. I think variety in spanking play is the spice to life. -
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Tue, August 7, 2007 - 4:33 PMBeing a switch also, I like to bare the spankee myself, whereas my spanker likes me to bare myself(do as your told), while I like to be bared by the spanker(like you want me to bare it for you....hah). OHOH I'm really in for it now........(how dare I not do as I'm told).
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Tue, August 7, 2007 - 9:35 PMwow third switch to post, I say all us switches get together and celabrate by switching each other red!
but anyway, as a bottom I perfer having the spanker doing it, it makes me nervous to do it myself and as the top I like both ways, depends on the game. :) -
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Sat, August 18, 2007 - 1:49 AMhey deva,
I think it s time for your punishment!
You know the position
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If you are a spanker, do you like your spankee to pull her pants off herself or do it for her?
Fri, August 24, 2007 - 10:29 PMYes, I rewrote the question...
I like to make the woman I'm spanking bare her bottom. Actually, what I really like it to have her fetch the implements she's going to be spanked with and then bare her bottom for her spanking. I find delicious submission in "making" her take part in her own "punishment".
This said, like a lot of male spanking tops, I have a kink for skirts. I love to put a woman over my knee and pull her skirt up and spank her over a pair of sheer bikini panties. After some spanking I like to pull her panties down to the middle of her thighs and then spank her bare bottom.
So I guess that the answer is that it depends.
Wintermute
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Re: If you are a spanker, do you like your spankee to pull her pants off herself or do it for her?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 3:53 PMThere actually a fair amount of psychological research that shows it's more embarrassing to a woman to have to disrobe herself than to be disrobed. So making your female spankee bare herself is just good topping. Don't know about male spankees, it's not my thing so I've done very little research.
BTW: I'm with you on skirts. I've always attributed it to my years in catholic school.
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Thu, October 11, 2007 - 8:31 AMI like to see it is done for me as a punishment
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Fri, October 19, 2007 - 10:16 PMI mostly wear thongs, or simply a garter belt with stockings. Therefore, I'm always ready and willing for a spanking. Also, having bared cheeks beneath my skirt after the spanking is an added bonus.
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Sat, November 3, 2007 - 10:19 AMI usually wear a skirt and there is just nothing hotter then my partner pulling down my panties when he's ready to spank me. -
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Sun, November 4, 2007 - 4:00 AMI like to be told to take down my particular covering at the moment,BUT!...I also really like to be kinda roughly taken and have my clothing pulled up if Im wearing a skirt or pulled down if other....also like to wear some clothing sometimes that is more complicated and have belts and such,so it takes longer for my spanker to get to my bottom....the tension and anticipation for both of us is so nice of a turn-on. -
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Re: Do u prefer to unbutton your pants and pulled them down yourself or let your spanker to take care of it...
Wed, December 19, 2007 - 8:22 AMMy preference is to be tied to the ceiling in the basement and for my wife to strip me. Being totally helpless adds to the excitement.
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